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Too bad such a great song is ruined by a couple words of bad doctrine.
This is just one of those things that CANNOT be justified in the scripture in any way I've ever been able to find! I think it's just too easy to attribute things we don't understand to God - whether He was involved or not.
Too many times God has to get involved "after the fact", and we give Him the credit for the root cause. Just isn't always true. Just a shame.
Here's a different take though. I didn't read her lyrics as God is causing the fear. I read them as god is in the midst of them. That is a very hopeful thing. It is very Psalm 23 to me.
If she is saying that God is causing it...I flat out disagree and you have pointed that out. If she is saying that God is there in the midst of it or allows us to walk through it to become the people He needs us to be, then I agree.
Good stuff ... I would agree as well, but with the lyrics as a whole, I can't believe that's what the lyricist is trying to say. There is all this "suggestion" in there .. you know, "who knows what God would do" ... "his ways are higher" ... a lot of the junk (well, let me say .. what *I* feel is junk) that I hear when people don't understand something, so they cop out by attributing it God's Hand ...
That line "who knows how God will get ahold of us ..." combined with the rest of the examples ... I can't help but think that the author is suggesting that God is "involved" in making the stuff happen.
I guess my main point is this ... if the lyrics are that wishy-washy ... if they are that open to interpretation, and if one of those interpretations is just not Scriptural, I think there are plenty of "solid" songs out there to choose from instead of risking one that doesn't have a stable interpretation.
There is a ton of this right now in the church. A complete lack of who God is and is not. I am all for these great discussion about not "boxing" God in, but there are things that pure and simple God is and is not. that's not a box, that is Biblical fact.
Thanks for the challenge to not allow the softening of scripture for the sake of musical emotion.
Sad for sure. We need a new revelation - or at least a revisitation of the old one!
Such a waste, when a song is such a potential goodie, then you actually read the lyrics to find it's not usable.
:)
It either is just a bad song, or not theology or not intended to be theology. David says "where are you God" and many things that are human. Solomon says many things that are not quite theological in his cynical Ecclesiastes. So, what I see here is art--or an attempt at art. This song is and expression of the idea that God is revealed in things that move us--nature, circumstance and life. That is very scriptural. If I had a theme on that idea, it could work.
What I think is that we as Christian's have created our own subculture and lingo so much so that we cannot allow human experience to be expressed or allow artists to ask questions. This is all this little song does, not that I think it is great. Could just be a weak song artistically? Could be that our church structures put wet blankets on art? Has anyone thought of that?
Now that brings the biggest smile to my face I've had all day! Thanks!
God clearly gives us will, He couldn't justly hold us accountable for our decisions if He did not. But don't you think He is still in control of everything that happens? Tommy Nelson brought this up at a seminar I was at one time. He said, if a drunk driver crosses the median and kills a family of 4, would you rather know that God is in control of that situation and you don't understand? Or would you rather have to deal with Miller Light ruling that situation? Just something to think about. I think that saying 'everything ultimately filters through Him' is kind of acknowledging that same thing, but just packaging it differently. If God is sovereign, well, then He is sovereign. He can choose to intervene or not. I think our problem is that we put way to much weight on what happens in this blip of a life instead of acknowledging that it is a small portion of our eternal existence, be it ultimately in heaven or in eternal separation from the Glory of God.
Maybe this could be an interesting discussion.
-Travis
I don't know. This is a very interesting comment. I still have to ask this: If it's a question, then the answer is clear - I've thought about if God is in it or not and the answer is "no" - unless it meets the parameters Fred first posted. If it's not, then we (as leaders) need to be very careful to understand that we should be able to say "I endorse the lyrics of this song" to the people God has called us to lead. That's a very holy place to be and we must be careful. Art or not.
As said earlier, there are just too many solid songs out there.
1.) That God does not cause "bad things" to happen to teach us lessons.
2.) God is not involved in the generation of fear.
Well, I'll sort of agree with those two statements and I say "sort of" because they're just so darn subjective. Here's my issue with the first one:
1.) God is good. Period. I'm not saying that he does, but EVEN IF he had a hand in orchestrating events that we would view as "bad" such as someone dying, that doesn't detract one iota from his goodness. God is good on an astronomical level that we can't even begin to understand. What is "good" for us now might not be good at all. Who's to know what good is except to know that God is the fullness of goodness?
Here's the reality: God did a lot of things (Old Testament and New) that we wouldn't consider "good." Prime examples: God authorized the slaughter of entire people groups when bringing the children of Israel into the promised land, God sent (or allowed) evil spirits to torment Saul while he was king, God struck down Ananias and his wife Saphira for lying, and he refused to heal Paul of the "thorn in his flesh."
If those were the only things I knew about God, I wouldn't think he was very good, now would I?
2.) Now, as for God "being involved" and "speaking through" our fear, I don't necessarilly see the big deal here. Of course God can be involved in our fear and speak through it.
Being involved doesn't mean that he gave it to us. We're quite capable of fearing all by our lonesome.
As for speaking through it, just because God speaks through fear doesn't mean that he caused the fear to make a point. I don't think that was the intent of the author.
I'm just going for clarification on that one.
Anywho, them's my two cents.
Good stuff Ben. I think much of it has to do with who's perspective you're looking through. I guess we have to take all the perspectives and put them together to get a true picture of what God looks like.
Why don't we see if we can get the writer involved in the discussion. That would be cool...
Personally, I think the Bible pushes the issue of God's sovereignty much further than most of us are comfortable with. Verses like “I form light and create darkness, I make comfort and create calamity, I am the Lord, who does all these things†(Isaiah 45:7, from the ESV - by far the most accurate translation available), “Is it not from the mouth of the Most High that good and evil come?†(Lamentations 3:38), or even Job's recognition that "The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away†, where-in Job recognizes that - even though enacted by the Devil - the trouble afflicting him were ultimately very sovereignly allowed by God for a reason, and the book's author adds “In all this Job did not sin or charge God with wrong." Those are merely a tiny fraction of the verses I could sample, but the mystery here is clearly great, to the point of making the brightest theologians feel like idiots when trying to sort these issue out. It seems clear to me, however, that if the Bible is willing to go that far in it's statements on God's sovereignty over evil that her lyrics are probably well within what I would call 'safe territory'.
Ask yourself: is murder the will of God? Jesus was murdered, and the Bible says it was God's plan from the beginning: "Truly in this city there were gathered together against your holy servant Jesus, whom you anointed, both Herod and Pontius Pilate, along with the Gentiles and the peoples of Israel, to do whatever your hand and your plan had predestined to take place.†(Acts 4:27-28) Murder is a sin, but God clearly pre-ordained the death of Jesus. If God can do this, and remain without sin, can't he also use someone's fear to speak?
You know me: I'm a 'bad' Calvinist (meaning that many Calvinists wouldn't claim me, but most anyone who's NOT a Calvinists would almost immediately identify me as one, which they - too - would think is 'bad' ;-)) , so these sorts of lyrics actually encourage me. I appreciate the raw honesty there, and think it would make a GREAT special.
Not long ago I read a powerful (all but one chapter, at least) book edited by John Piper & Justin Taylor called Suffering and the Sovereignty of God . It's dense in places, but I'd be happy to let you borrow it some day if you like.
I admit these are complex (and also peripheral) issues, so I appreciate your cautiousness about this song.
Looking forward to seeing you tonight! blessings!
My take on this is that your most important point is that YOU are responsible for the spiritual care of your congregation as Worship Leader/Director/Pastor.
This blog entry and your thoughts are why I believe that churches must re-think their conception of the Worship Leader / Director / Song Leader. You are dealing with theological and biblical issues, and those in these staff positions confront this every day -- but are often under-equipped to process the issues appropriately.
What you bring up are Pastoral issues, and as such it would benefit the church at large to begin thinking much more holistically about the role of Worship Leader / Pastor. We know from Colossians 3 that corporate worship is by nature a teaching and admonishing ministry, as well as an opportunity to respond directly to God's grace toward us. It is therefore important to equip the individuals holding these roles with the pastoral / theological background necessary for the task. I've watched all too often gifted musicians get burned out, or chewed up, because they had never been trained to handle the pastoral and theological roles they were trying to fulfill. Things start out great, then the weight of the pastoral responsibilities gets overwhelming (and is usually unexpected). It often ends in discouragement for the musicians and the church.
Please understand that I'm not suggesting that everyone leading worship get a Ph.D. in Bible or Theology. What I'm suggesting is a better balance between music and service preparation & a solid grasp of basic, orthodox Christian doctrine and teaching. This training can come in many ways, but must be constantly pursued at levels deeper than common devotional practice.
Unfortunately, many American Evangelical Christians in the pews get their theology from popular Christian music (or movies, or radio, or magazines) -- rather than directly from the Bible. This makes the weight of our responsibility greater as we plan and prepare worship that will be engaging AND represent God properly in all that He is as Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
So, finally, be diligent in weeding out this kind of stuff. It takes work, we have to pay attention, sometimes we get grief -- but at the end of the day we must be able to say before God and man that we did our best to uphold our Pastoral/Leadership responsibilities to the best of our ability.
For me the phrase "in everything charity" is the most important here. this song is one that has divided ideas. This song itself is not one that is necessary to accomplish what you are trying to do. "In charity" would mean that Fred is willing to use it and you are willing to let it go. I don't believe that this song needs to be fought over. In my situation, I would let it go...even though I would like to use it (Which I would).
In my situation if one Pastor said don't use it and I said do, it is more appropriate for me to let it go to not be divisive than it is for him to say do it when this song itself is not that important.
gnuk gnuk gnuk gnuk!
I gotta be careful picking on Fred today though - he's running sound for us this Sunday A.M.!
have mercy, Fred! ;-)
Act 6:2 Then the twelve called the multitude of the disciples [unto them], and said, It is not reason that we should leave the word of God, and serve tables.
Act 6:3 Wherefore, brethren, look ye out among you seven men of honest report, full of the Holy Ghost and wisdom, whom we may appoint over this business.
Act 6:4 But we will give ourselves continually to prayer, and to the ministry of the word.
The pastor is supposed to have people overseeing certain areas of ministry so that it frees him from having to do these things. Yes, there are many as "leaders" who have no more spiritual training, understanding or biblical savvy than many new-born babes in Christ. They have a new convert who can sing and play an instrument and just stick them up front to lead because of their natural talents.
However, this is not the more excellent way. Worship leaders are supposed to be accoutable in just the way that Mark said. It IS pastoral in the sense of caring for the flock. The Lord said that He would give his people "Shepherds" after His own heart. A worship leader must always have this concept in his heart.
Bottom line? I feel that if the pastor and leadership of the church has dilligently chosen a worship leader, then the act of leading in this area should be left in the hands of the one chosen for the task - until he does something that warrants a change.
Whether the leader is right or wrong in deciding whether or not to sing a particular song, it's his decision. Every leader in the body of Christ misses it. But authority was given by God, not man. And as long as the leader's heart is in the right place, the misses will be alot fewer than the hits.
I don't know about the rest of you, but this is really eye-opening to me. I want to thank all who are contributing. I am getting much out of this.
Amen
Kidding.
-Travis
To keep from repeating what some have said, I have to say I am right there along with Ben, Travis, and Shannon. I love seeing the body work together.
Great blog Fred!!!
Maybe if you all were a little more holy, God would tell you specifically what HE thought about the song. Huh. You hear that? It's the sound of my point sizzling like a steak on a grill. Oh yeah, I went there. [/sarcasm]
Well, Ben - God told me that he thought the song was cheesy CCM pop-drivel, but that He did really like ONE particular verse of the lyrics.
[exiting sarcasm game]
honestly, I still haven't heard it...
just having fun!
I completely agree. Maybe I didn't make myself clear - of course, God can (and will) speak through circumstances - bad and good. God will take bad things, and use them to work good for Him.
My issue was the way I "heard" the lyrics, they were somehow suggesting that God was involved in causing the circumstances directly, or indirectly (ie. that God was involved in letting us be trapped in fear, etc" ....
Fred
But I'm a member of one of the camps. I'm just now - having read all this - ready to say "Ok, both camps are full of good and right points. What can be done to combine them into a stronger, single camp?"
God IS sovereign. No doubt. Never was any doubt on my part. Bottom line? Not a single one of you knows the depths of His sovereingty. Only I know that (OK - just entered Ben and Shannon's sarcasm game).
Seriously, though - exiting the game - this is my final take:
I believe that God is soverign in that He knows all that will happen. He knew it from the very foundation of the world. He knows what Satan is going to do and He knows what we are going to do. He knows that He COULD stop any and all of it and make us like robots if He wanted, but that would go against His own law of free will and choice. So He has chosen to let certain "laws" take their course.
A young baseball player is stealing second base and the catcher throws the ball a little off. The runner's helmet comes off and the ball hits him on the temple and kills him.
Terrible. But don't say that God did it. God will work through it. God WANTS to work through it, and already knew that it would happen and knew who would let Him reach them through it.
Some will say that God ALLOWED it to happen. He knew it was going to happen. He could have stopped it. He chose not to. That EQUALS Him actually causing it.
I can't go there. But I can truly see more of a balance between the two.
Several other quotes need light shed on them.
As to Calvinism. With Calvin sovereignty and God's election dealt with sotieriology, not God as the causitive agent of everything though many have since gone there with it. If God causes everything then He caused me to think the thought "He is the causitive agent of everything" and then any sense of rationality goes out the window because I can never be sure I if am thinking rationally but there is a puppet master (God) in my brain arranging all my thoughts. I call myself a Pauline Doctrine of Electionist to separate myself from common connotations of others toward Calvinists. It at least makes them stop and ask me, "Now what?"
"Please understand that I’m not suggesting that everyone leading worship get a Ph.D. in Bible or Theology." I am suggesting that they should strongly consider it and if not, at least be highly educated in Systematic and Biblical theology. We should know the God we lead people to subjectively (experientially) and objectively (factually). Every worship leader ought to have a sound theology on the nature of Christ (vs. heretical views), the Trinity (one of the largest churches in Dallas' Pastor refuses to use the word or espouse it..historically speaking they are no then a Church by Nicene Standards), and the atonement.
oddly enough, today - while mopping my studio/family room - I was pondering that very thing! I think it would do a good many worship leaders quite a bit of good to - maybe not get a PhD in Theology - study theology far more than they do. I think that's why I've been really excited by the songwriting of Matt Redman, Graham Kendrick (particularly his more recent material), Vicky Beeching, and many of the Sovereign Grace Ministries folks - they clearly come from deep wells, not only of emotion, but of thought. Personally, I try to keep at least one book of theology (systematic, biblical, or practical - I rotate) on my bedside next to my Bible and something devotional at all times. Though I don't read huge chunks at a time, a page or two every few nights almost always challenges me spiritually, and has much greater depth than most devotional material for me.
Robert - I like your attempt at balance, which is exactly what I want to do as well - find a Biblical balance, yet acknowledge the mystery. I would ask, however, how God's 'Old Testament wrath' played into God's clear responsibility, as acknowledged in the book, of Job's tribulations, or for that matter, Joseph's? Also, what does this do to how we understand God being the same "yesterday, today, and forever"?
I do like the image of a 'hall pass' - that seems to fit most of the imagery of how evil works in the Bible. I think the lyrics of this song seem to acknowledge that God gives a hall-pass to certain events and/or actions of the devil/demons/or fallen human hearts and not others because He recognizes how they fit into his greater plan and those are - somehow - the 'best', in the long-run...and those things - which are indeed "ALL THINGS" (good & evil) are 'worked' for our "good".
I'm surprised at how long this discussion has gone! Good stuff!
I have come to realize I cannot put God in a box. And the more I have grown in the word of God I see he is the Author and Perfecter of my life. What is Good? What can seem horrible to us(death of a loved one), could be the best thing if that person knows Jesus. He IS IN HEAVEN!!!!!, or God has used a circumstance to test our faith, and we have the choice how we respond. What is God trying to teach in this moment, or the amount of people that start to think about eternity and afterlife. Funerals are an amazing worship, and has and can be a divine moment to share thw gospel.
3Not only so, but we[a] also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us. Roman 5:3-5
I don't understand everything about my life, but has used every bit for the hope I have in Christ now. I wouldn't change any of it. Every bit has shaped my life, especially the hard circumstances. I am ok to know God can allow hard times. He is my Father who loves me and sees the Greater good of it all.
As Travis said: The serpent was put in the garden for a reason. What was God up to???
These are my ramblings....but I do believe in balance. I believe in unity of the body, and especially the Ultimate Authority(the Word Of God).
Even if a song could be controversial, I like the fact it could have people ask questions. I want people to be challenged in worship. I don't people to come to a worship service on Sunday morning and just leave feeling all fuzzy inside. I want lives to be changed more to living like and for Jesus.
This all said, I totally agree the song must be biblical. I do mean challenging in the biblical sense and not just some song thats heresy to have people question.
Go Jesus!! He rocks my face off.
I've been pondering all that was said - especially your response Shannon. The Lord has brought to my remembrance a number of times that I have actually "planned" unpleasant things in order to teach my children a lesson.
Now before you go calling me a bad daddy let me give an example: no amount of talking to one of my sons could change his attitude about a certain thing. So I arranged a circumstance to happen in order to place him in that very place. He gained a true understanding of what it meant and it changed his life.
My son David has just received a paintball gun. I spent alot of money on it and he was so excited! But now he's scared and doesn't want to join into the fray at a big party. I know he will regret it if he doesn't get involved. So I have "planned and orchestrated" a sneak attack on him today. We're simply going to trap him in a place and shoot him up a little.
I know my son. He will be afraid. Then he will be upset. Then he will be angry. Then he will start laughing and probably shoot better than all of us.
My heavenly Father has done this to me so many times that it makes my head spin. He has (I believe) put me in situations that have challenged me above and beyond the place I felt I was spiritually or physically strong enough to handle. All in order to REVEAL TO ME WHO I WAS AND WHAT I WAS CAPABLE OF.
Having said all that, I believe that God is and always has been and always will be the same. But if I had to describe what that is it would be this:
GOD IS LOVE, AND YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT HE'S GOING TO DO NEXT. HE'S ALWAYS THE SAME - TOTALLY UNPREDICABLE.
In that, He is sovereign. I still hold to many of my beliefs about this subject. But above all my beliefs now is a banner in my heart that says "I have found myself full of the ability to be wrong".
good stuff.
Honestly, I hope I don't sound like I know it all on this topic - I've changed my way of seeing this so many times...I'll be reading my Bible and get slapped with a verse, and I say, "here we go again - how does THIS one pick into the picture of God I have in my brain", and sometimes it's troubling, but more often than not the final result is that my view of God gets broadened, sometimes so much so that it feels as though I've just been 'converted ' all over again. I love those moments!
Yes, though - very good conversation. I think I'm going to do a whole SERIES on a related subject at my other blog starting late next week, using Piper/Taylor's SUFFERING AND THE SOVEREIGNTY OF GOD as a jumping point. Stop by and be encouraged to enter into the conversation - I'd love to hear from you.
blessings...
Again, Ronnie was not saying God's involvement meant He caused those things to happen....He was saying His involvement is to be with us during those times, using that situation to speak to us. It happened - He might as well use it to teach us, etc.
God's perfect "A" will for us is just that perfect. We are not perfect. When we choose to go a different path - it's our choice. However, the very moment that happens, God is trying to get us back on His perfect path for our lives. It may take months or even years. That's when His "B", and "C" wills come in. He makes a detour to get us back.
I hope this helps.
Thanks so much. Your reply seems absolute and authoritative, as if you know the writer personally, and have direct knowledge of the writer's intention ... is this the case, or is this just your interpretation? I'd love to know this was straight from the writer (Ronnie?) ... sure makes the song wonderful for me again!
My issue wasn't that the writer meant one thing or another - but that it "could be" interpreted to mean it was caused - it was questionable enough, that without interpretation and explanation, I wasn't comfortable using it.
Hope you'll come back and respond.
Fred
Thanks for your comments .. I'm glad you found the blog, and hope you'll stay around as a daily reader! The more I hear from people, the more I can see that hopefully that's what the writer meant. Actually, a friend of the songwriter has contacted me and said that's DEFINITELY what the writer meant, so it makes me enjoy the song so much more.
All along, I thought it was a beautiful song, I just didn't necessarily think I could use it in corporate worship w/o some explanation ... I didn't want to leave that up to "interpretation".
God bless,
Fred
That being said... yeah, I love knowing what authors meant, even if it sometimes meant something different to me.
Based on what Robert just said,
I think Travis just touched on it a bit, but does it matter what they meant by it? Can we not take a song and use for how we see it?
But that's just me.
But the song in question was to be more of a "special" and many songs have a lot of room for meaning and I think could work nicely into making a point or emphasizing a topic.
I have read most of the comments going back and forth but not all. So If I am repeating anyone, sorry.
One thing that I haven't seen anyone mention is some major events in the bible.
Let's look at the Israelites. God told Abraham that his descendents would go into captivity. God allowed that captivity to happen. And look at the amazing things he showed us about His love, mercy, soveriegnty, power and well to cut the list short - His character.
And what about Job. Did not God allow satan to attack every part of His family, lively hood and physical elements of Job himself? Is this not a sorrowful event. God used it though for Job's life personally and his relationship with Christ and as an example to us.
and what about the history of martyrs. Would you say then that their death is meaningless. Their deaths, for many, spread the word of God, started revivels, etc.
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that God is the root cause of all the bad crap in the world. He gave us freedom of choice, and we are born into sin. So bad things are going to happen. But the point that I truly believe that Mandisa is saying is. God is here through it all and we will use anything - especially valleys (pain, hurt, confusion, fear) to show who he is and how we need him.
He knows the world is broken. so he uses the brokeness to create beauty one person and one situation at a time.
My challenge is this. Take a moment to reflect back on your own life, and even the lives of those around you who have walked a true journey with God. When was His glory most revealed. When were you most changed, and encouraged by God?
Think about the reality of that and then meditate on the songs lyrics again.
Great observation - I totally love how this discussion has continually evolved.
Now that i've heard all the discussion, I really like the song. I did hear from a person recently who personally knows the songwriter, and they verified that the writer is ABSOLUTELY NOT suggesting that God "caused" the bad things; rather, that He was there in the midst.
Of course, that may revive the whole "first cause" argument .. but I guess my main issue all along was that because it was unclear, and "up to interpretation" to me ... I just didn't feel that it was the right fit for our corporate worship service.
That doesn't take away from the song overall, and I'd totally be all for someone singing this as "special music" and taking 2-3 minutes to talk about the song and what it suggests - that would be sweet. I just didn't want to perform it as a stand alone w/o any opportunity to explain it, and in the scenario I originally blogged about, that would've been the case due to time constraints.
So great having this discussion!
Fred
And I believe it is ultimately your right to make this call because of the position you are in. The reality is whatever we all think, you have more understanding and the authority for your congregation.
I've enjoyed this conversation as well.
I am an Assistant Minister at a church in MD. I have heard the song, "God Speaking," and I think it's a beautiful song. I also love the words, but let me tell you my take on God's sovereignty. I look at God's sovereignty, in this song, in a different way. I'm using it to end a Good Friday service, but from the standpoint that God loves us so much that God will move heaven and earth to speak to us - especially if we don't know God's love. Whether one is a believer or not, bad things happen in all our lives. That's a fact. But, I don't think the song is saying that God causes these things to happen. I think that the song is naming things in one's life that can happen, have happened, or will happen, and, regardless of what happens, God is speaking, "I love you," period - all the time. I would challenge you to think about the song in this way: God loves us so much, that God speaks to us everywhere, at all times, and in everything circumstance - the death and Resurrection of God's son, Jesus, a sunrise, a sunset, God's beautiful creation, birthdays, weddings, but also funerals, the death of loved ones, difficult times in our lives, everything. That's the general and special revelation of God. I listened to an interview of Mandisa regarding her "God Speaking" song. And do you know what she said? She said that she wrote the song when she was going through a time in her life full of judgment and criticism. She said she took some time to herself to listen to what God was saying to her. And when she was quiet enought to hear God's voice, she said God spoke to her, not with a word of judgment or criticism, but simply said, "I Love You." The song is, really, her testimony about a time in her life. I hope you are not implying that God only speaks to us and is with us when things are going great in our lives. If so, I wholeheartedly disagree with that. On the contrary, the Savior who speaks to us in the good times, I firmly believe, is the same Savior who weeps with us, advocates for us, and comforts us in the difficult times whispering "I Love You."
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